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Who are your services for?

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My work is for adults of all genders, bodies, and levels of experience who are curious, intentional, and interested in learning their bodies with care.

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I especially welcome inquiries from folks who are disabled, trans, BIPOC, femme, or otherwise underrepresented in this space.

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In-person sessions are available to clients 27 years and older.

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Virtual coaching and consultations are available to clients 18 years and older. No exceptions.

 

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How do I book a session?

 

All new clients are required to submit an application. This process helps me understand your needs and confirm we’re aligned. Not everyone who applies is invited to work with me. 

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All bookings require full payment in advance.

 

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What payment methods do you accept?

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I accept Venmo and Cash App. Cash is accepted only for follow-up appointments or package purchases made during a prepaid session.

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International clients may use PayPal (a 5% processing fee applies).

 

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How big are your hands?

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I have relatively small hands. That said, hand size is only one factor in this work. Technique, pacing, communication, and preparation matter far more.

 

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Are substances allowed during sessions?

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Light use of poppers or cannabis is permitted. All other substances, including alcohol or stimulants, are not allowed.

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I do not use substances during sessions. If it appears that a client is under the influence of substances outside of what’s permitted, the session will end immediately with no refund.

 

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Why work with you instead of another top?

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Many people learn through friends or partners, and that can work well when there’s experience and care involved.

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My services are for those who want structured guidance, harm-reduction-informed pacing, and someone who prioritizes safety, communication, and long-term sustainability over performance or force.

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This work draws on years of hands-on experience, anatomy education, and a background in harm reduction and queer health.

 

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What do you provide during in-person sessions?

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I provide lube, pads, paper towels, sheets, and gloves if requested.

 

Clients are welcome to bring personal items or toys if they prefer.

 

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Do you provide toys?

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Yes. I have a curated collection available, primarily suited for clients with some experience. Clients are also welcome to bring their own toys.

 

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Do I need to prep before a session?

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Yes. Clients are expected to arrive as prepared as possible.

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Accidents happen, and light touch-ups are okay, but session time will not be extended for additional prep. Prep guidance is provided after booking.

 

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Do you offer training for tops?

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Yes. Top-focused training is available for an additional fee.

 

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Why is there a 27+ age requirement for in-person sessions?

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This boundary reflects my experience around consistency, communication, and readiness for long-term body work. Virtual coaching remains available to adults 18 and older.

 

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Can filming or content creation offset the session cost?

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No. Content creation and training/coaching are separate. All sessions are paid experiences.

 

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Can we trade play for training?

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No. All services are offered on a paid basis only.

 

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Will you be able to go “all the way” in the first session?

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There are no guarantees. Progress depends on your experience, comfort, and how your body responds.

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I will never rush or force progression for the sake of an outcome.

 

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What do virtual sessions cover?

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Virtual sessions are client-led and may include topics such as:

   •    Anatomy and technique

   •    Equipment and setup

   •    Pacing and progression

   •    Finding and communicating with play partners

   •    Health considerations and harm reduction

   •    Mindset and psychological barriers

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Virtual sessions are educational and coaching-based. I do not provide medical, psychological, or clinical care.

 

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Do you work with couples?

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Yes. I offer in-person sessions for individuals, couples, and established partners.