Frequently Asked Questions
Who are your services for?
My work is for adults of all genders, bodies, and levels of experience who are curious, intentional, and interested in learning their bodies with care.
I especially welcome inquiries from folks who are disabled, trans, BIPOC, femme, or otherwise underrepresented in this space.
In-person sessions are available to clients 27 years and older.
Virtual coaching and consultations are available to clients 18 years and older. No exceptions.
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How do I book a session?
All new clients are required to submit an application. This process helps me understand your needs and confirm we’re aligned. Not everyone who applies is invited to work with me.
All bookings require full payment in advance.
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What payment methods do you accept?
I accept Venmo and Cash App. Cash is accepted only for follow-up appointments or package purchases made during a prepaid session.
International clients may use PayPal (a 5% processing fee applies).
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How big are your hands?
I have relatively small hands. That said, hand size is only one factor in this work. Technique, pacing, communication, and preparation matter far more.
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Are substances allowed during sessions?
Light use of poppers or cannabis is permitted. All other substances, including alcohol or stimulants, are not allowed.
I do not use substances during sessions. If it appears that a client is under the influence of substances outside of what’s permitted, the session will end immediately with no refund.
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Why work with you instead of another top?
Many people learn through friends or partners, and that can work well when there’s experience and care involved.
My services are for those who want structured guidance, harm-reduction-informed pacing, and someone who prioritizes safety, communication, and long-term sustainability over performance or force.
This work draws on years of hands-on experience, anatomy education, and a background in harm reduction and queer health.
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What do you provide during in-person sessions?
I provide lube, pads, paper towels, sheets, and gloves if requested.
Clients are welcome to bring personal items or toys if they prefer.
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Do you provide toys?
Yes. I have a curated collection available, primarily suited for clients with some experience. Clients are also welcome to bring their own toys.
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Do I need to prep before a session?
Yes. Clients are expected to arrive as prepared as possible.
Accidents happen, and light touch-ups are okay, but session time will not be extended for additional prep. Prep guidance is provided after booking.
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Do you offer training for tops?
Yes. Top-focused training is available for an additional fee.
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Why is there a 27+ age requirement for in-person sessions?
This boundary reflects my experience around consistency, communication, and readiness for long-term body work. Virtual coaching remains available to adults 18 and older.
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Can filming or content creation offset the session cost?
No. Content creation and training/coaching are separate. All sessions are paid experiences.
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Can we trade play for training?
No. All services are offered on a paid basis only.
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Will you be able to go “all the way” in the first session?
There are no guarantees. Progress depends on your experience, comfort, and how your body responds.
I will never rush or force progression for the sake of an outcome.
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What do virtual sessions cover?
Virtual sessions are client-led and may include topics such as:
• Anatomy and technique
• Equipment and setup
• Pacing and progression
• Finding and communicating with play partners
• Health considerations and harm reduction
• Mindset and psychological barriers
Virtual sessions are educational and coaching-based. I do not provide medical, psychological, or clinical care.
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Do you work with couples?
Yes. I offer in-person sessions for individuals, couples, and established partners.